The loneliness *no one* talks about...

You're "the good one." "The strong one." "The reliable one." 

You've been called these things so many times that you started believing they were compliments. Maybe they were, until somewhere along the way they became a job description, and you don't remember signing the contract.‼️

Especially if you're the one everyone leans on.

The one who remembers everyone's birthday and shows up early and stays late. The one people call when their life is falling apart, but somehow never the one whose life anyone notices is quietly falling apart too. 👀

So you keep showing up...

You keep holding it together.

You read the room before you walk in, calculate how much of yourself is okay to bring, and leave the rest at the door.

You share, but not too much.

You're honest, but only to a certain point. Am I being too much? Too loud? Too emotional? Is this landing okay?

It's exhausting. And it's also one of the loneliest ways to be in a room full of people who think they know you.

Here's the thing I want to name: You might not be able to point at exactly what's wrong. Nothing is technically falling apart. From the outside, you look fine. Better than fine. But underneath it, there's a quiet voice that's been getting louder, and it's saying something like: I don't think I want to keep living like this.

You don't know what "this" is yet & you don't have to.

What I want you to know is that voice isn't a problem to solve. It's the part of you that hasn't given up on you.

She's the one trying to bring you home & it's time you listen to WHAT she has to say. She's not going to do it through more performing, more holding it together, more being the good one.. but through the opposite — through letting you exhale somewhere.

That's what I've spent the last five years building.

Sacred Circle is for the woman who doesn't quite know yet what she needs... but knows it isn't more of what she's been doing. A space where the women who hold everything together can finally put it down.

If something in you just exhaled reading that, you're who I'm talking to, love.

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X, Jess